i don’t try to be, but i just am.  My sense of humor comes off in such a mean way, and it kills me that I hurt people’s feelings without trying to at all. Whenever someone tells me that i have a cold heart or something along those lines, I just want to crawl in a hole and die.  I can handle insults about my appearance because i’ve dealt with those all of my life, and I’m used to them now, but when they insult my personality it hits me so hard.  Maybe I should just stop talking all together so I can never upset anyone ever again. okay sorry I just had to get that off of my chest.